Public Speaking: How To Make Your Stories More Engaging
Recently, I was asked to put together a keynote talk on confidence for a corporate women’s conference. While I was reviewing my stories and polishing them up a bit, it occurred to me how important it is not only to tell stories – because we all know how important stories are for engagement and empathy – but also to rack up the tension by having something at stake.
So, next time you’re public speaking, instead of just recounting a simple story, you want to talk about how important it is for the main character to succeed and what’s at risk if things go wrong.
What makes your story more engaging when public speaking?
One of the stories I share is about a period I spent performing onboard a cruise ship. At the time I was incredibly excited because I was visualising a glamorous new life at sea.
I also shared the fact that to be chosen to do more cruises, I had to achieve a certain score from the audience assessment process. No score, no party. No more cruising!
Sharing what’s at stake during public speaking
I then share the ups and downs (literal – there were some big waves! – and figurative) of being on the ship. You want the audience to be on the edge of their seats because you want them to be as engaged and as interested as you possibly can. What’s at stake is my exciting new life…if I don’t get the score I need, it’s all over.
If you possibly can, as you go through the story, heighten the tension by sharing with the audience the risks and the potential benefits to you. That way they’ll be engrossed, and excited about the outcome.
One of the most famous storytelling frameworks is “The Hero’s Journey”. It’s found in films like Star Wars and The Lion King. There’s always something at stake and the situation gets worse before it gets better. If you’re interested in reading more about “The Hero’s Journey” framework, you can find it in any good storytelling book and it also gets a mention in “How to be a DIVA at Public Speaking” or you can just Google it.
Remember that when you’re storytelling, you want to heighten the tension by having something at stake, having the situation get worse and sharing with the audience what’s in it for you if you do manage to succeed, and what the implications are if you don’t.
Make sure they really understand the importance of the central event in your story. Get them involved and let them feel the tension build as you journey towards the climax of your tale.
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